Signs She’s not into you Bro

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Ok, So you’ve been chasing that certain girl for months, weeks and maybe days. She doesn’t call, she flirts with other guys, and you still continue to hope that maybe she’ll come around. How do you know when to finally give up?

When it comes to reading women signals, lets just say the the indicators are very different in many ways. As a man we sometimes give off when we are not interested although we may give signs and false alarms that we are. Im about to give you 7 signs that shows she isn’t into you and ladies if I’m wrong please feel free to tell me. I conclude after this list that any man should be able to quickly determine if they should continue their pursuit or walk away with their manhood.

1. She says she not ready to be in a relationship

Whelp, the classic, Women use this when they feel like they have nowhere to go by someone they are not interested in. Its pure, requires no cooking and leaves no room for an argument. But if a woman says this, what she really means is that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. For whatever reason, she doesn’t see you as relationship material for her, so don’t stay hoping she changes her mind someday. If she does get in a relationship someday, it wont be with you Bro.

2. You Call and text, and/or she doesn’t return your calls or text

Chill: She may be avoiding you homie. And if she isn’t avoiding you, you are not on her mind and she actually forgot. Either way, this pretty much says that she has less interest in you and doesn’t care to actively seek out your company.

Heres a rule: If she doesn’t return your first call or text, call a second time and don’t send a question mark text, as she may be playing hard to get. If she doesn’t return your second call, you can rightly conclude she’s not into you. ( Do give some time in between, women do have lives too, She should call you once for every 3 times you call.)

3. She looks the other way when you see her and avoids physical contact

Obvious one but some guys are too thirsty to actually catch this.  If she is attracted to you, she will naturally want to be close to you and she WILL make eye contact. If she looks away every now and then she doesn’t want to lead you on and having to turn down your advances later on. Take the sign and move on playa.

4. She mentions other guys she finds attractive

No, she’s not making you jealous Lol-Unless we are dealing with the classic Ex Girlfriend, a situation that belongs in another category.  Most likely though, you are in the ” Friend Zone”  Which means you are just like one of the girlfriends  that she shares thoughts with.

5. She is always vague about plans with you

If she really wants to see you, she’ll make firm plans. If she doesn’t want to see you or doesn’t care either way, you can be sure she’s not into you. If she is vague then she is neutral about being in your company or even worse, she doesn’t want to commit in case something better comes up. Damn

6. She regularly cancels plans

Let me just say it: You are the second choice guy, the ” just in case she doesn’t have anything better to do” guy. It is certainly fair to cancel plans occasionally for a legit reason, but if she bails consistently, ditch her, even as a friend. If she does this, it not only shows that she’s not interested, but she holds little respect for you man. Move on quickly!

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If she shows any of these signs, it doesn’t do good for your cause. If she exhibits two out of three, you can be certain your not it. I know from experience that a crush can be a big blow to ones self esteem. Cut your losses and move on, Repeat this saying until it stays with you, She’s not into you Move one.

Until next time, Take care of yourself and each other

-Trell

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Calm, Cool and Collective. Over the years I have seeked, gained and gave knowledge on relationships. By far relationships as young adults are the stepping stones to the great wonders that lie in each of our future. I just share my knowledge and experiences with you.

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