It seems the American Culture is being taken over by the “nice guys”. Every girl reading this blog knows EXACTLY what a nice guy is. There is no need to pull out Wikipedia here. In addition to that, every woman reading this knows AT LEAST one nice guy in her social circle. All human beings (including women) are shallow at times, self-serving, and superficial when choosing a mate and we intrinsically have the smaller requirements in physical stature, body language, position in life AND confidence that all must be satisfied on some level for us to want to even entertain being with someone. Girls, can you please just be honest with these guys and let them know that you are NOT checking for a man who looks like a Handy-man and smells like Kobe Bryant after a playoff Game just because you met at the “right” time. While it is true that an attractive girl might be attracted to a less-than-attractive guy based on his personality (and vice versa), you cannot make a generalization that every girl will be that way. Some girls have very high standards. Many guys are the same way — they set too high of standards for themselves, especially when it comes to the way a woman looks. Guys sometimes, not all the time tend to base so much on looks. Women can base a lot of their attraction on looks but I can say there have been times when I wouldn’t go out with a girl because I wasn’t physically attracted to her. In conclusion it is POSSIBLE, but it rarely happens that way to get any person you want. That person has to be attracted to you in some way or another. If somebody is not interested, then of course there will not really be much of a chance. But yes, some lesser attractive people date VERY attractive people as long as they like that person and how they are. Plus, one person may be ugly to one person, but somebody else may think they are Attractive.
This Discussion is still back and forth, but until next time, take care of yourself and each other.