What NOT to do on a first Date.


Wow its been too long since I blogged which Isn’t like me, but  I’m back and tonight I bring you the Dont’s of a first Date. We’ve all been on first dates and we all know how to act and we all know sometimes what we expect from our date unless of course they’re a complete stranger. I’ve had a shit ton of first Dates and by far there has always been something that went wrong, usually for some reason the girl I’ve met out and about turned out to be the girl.

1. DONT talk about your exes.

I think this one is self explanatory, No one wants to hear about them, even if they…never-mind. NEXT.

2. Don’t talk about yourself.

A first Date is about getting to know the other person, Getting to know each other, NOT Brag about that New BMW you just got or how many pairs of Jordan’s you own.

3. The 3 Words I Love You

Besides asking a girl to be your girlfriend on the first Date or girls wanting a guy to be their man right away, saying I Love you will get you know where but the club looking for a freshman.

4. Don’t plan the next date after the first

Ride with it, take the first Date as is, If a second date is meant to happen it will happen; but let the first one ride first. You never want to come off too pushy, never.

5. Don’t be sloppy

This ties into Drinking, being aggressive or any of the above. Slurring words, stumbling, none of which is acceptable. This is a big No No.

6. Burp, Fart, Belch, eat with your mouth open, chew gum, spit, or pick your nose.

Smh. Any person that does any of these are out of their mind. If you want a second Date or a Good night…Do these before hand.

7. Pay Attention.

I have a friend ” YAMMERS” who told me recently he always gets caught watching ESPN on Dates especially if he’s sitting close to a TV.  Cell phones or any distractions, close them out and focus on whats in front of you…Your Date.

8. Rant

Don’t moan, rant, talk about your problems. You’re on a Date and no one wants to hear about your Baby Mama Drama or your crazy ex who brags constantly to your friends about their new man…just saying.

9. Cancel

NEVER cancel plans at the last minute, House fire, Death are acceptable things but Diarrhea is not, put on a diaper and man up or woman up Lol.

10. Good hygiene

Cleanliness, not to much perfume or cologne, clean clothes and clean shoes. Clothes don’t make the person but for this night it does.

These are just a few of my Dont’s on a first Date, I could go on forever but for right now Im stopping here.

Until next time take care of yourself and each other.



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Montrell Writes

Calm, Cool and Collective. Over the years I have seeked, gained and gave knowledge on relationships. By far relationships as young adults are the stepping stones to the great wonders that lie in each of our future. I just share my knowledge and experiences with you.

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