The Perfect Boyfriend doesn’t Drink, Doesn’t Smoke and Doesn’t Exist. The Good Girl does though, very few, but they are out there its just hard to find them. I say I’ve probably dated one in my years and the others had the looks to be Good. Anyway, the signs are there. Good Girls often talk about meeting Mr. Right, Us Guys don’t talk about the same thing. Generally men can forgive a lot of bad character points as long as the girl is smoking hot. However, there comes a time when we want a girlfriend, a good quality girl who we can have a deeper connection with. Assuming we may still go to bars and clubs, how can we find this kind of Girl.
Some Qualities of a Good Girl:
Looks: Well taken care of, fashionable. 3 hours getting ready, brand named clothes, tons of accessories and jewelry equals at least high maintenance and sometimes trouble. Think about it, while she is spending 3 hours getting ready, a good quality girl is reading a book, painting, studying for a class, or otherwise improving herself for you or life’s wonders. The time taken to get ready means her looks are very important , This may be her only and big asset. What others think of her is probably also important which means she might have self-esteem and confidence issues and so need to be chatted up by lots of men to give her an ego boost. For Some of course not all.
My thought of a girl is fashionable without over-branding, takes 45 minutes to get ready, and has a light dusting of make-up at most.
The Way she acts: The amount of drink a girl has can be a factor, if she does get drunk and doesn’t have control you wouldn’t want to date her. Think about whether you could sleep at night if she was out with her friends doing this! She should like the club for dancing, being sociable, but not the bad aspects that lead to the usual party girl.
Take care of yourself and each other.